Comments on: Julia Hudson ’s MySpace Madness: Misunderstood, Mentally Ill, or Run-of-the-Mill Stupid?

By: Willsgirl

Willsgirl — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 20:18:25 +0000

Well to respond to the comments made by Ms. Caring who “knows” Julia. She is not suffering alone..both sides lost..The Hudsons lost and the Balfours lost. I am a friend of William Balfour and he says that he had nothing to do with it AT ALL!!!! We must all wait and see what the outcome will be.

By: Katyakoshka

Katyakoshka — Thu, 02 Apr 2009 08:31:28 +0000

Honestly, dissociating to the point that she did makes sense. Putting things as competition, etc., is more a way of avoiding reality than any sign of sociopathic behavior. After I (literally) watched my father die (15 minutes), I complete my then-current quarter of school… because it was what had to be done. Grief is not all breast-beating and pain. It is avoidance, temporary denial, false normalization, and any sort of pretenses that you need to convince the world you don’t hurt nearly as much as they think you do… which is half as much as you really do.

That said, I’m sure the judgment on grief was even more horribly biased than it would have been for a man of any color, or any white woman.

And that is bullshit. I may be the millionth person saying so, but I believe my vote counts, too.

By: reiki

reiki — Sat, 31 Jan 2009 10:57:06 +0000

I believe she has a food allergy that makes her fat and crazy.

By: JJ

JJ — Sat, 20 Dec 2008 22:55:39 +0000

Im so agreeing with this article about Julia. Some people will do anything for fame. My gosh my mom is sick now and im like almost dieing with her. Julia needs med or maybe MORE meds. Human beings are social creatures and need social interaction, feedback, and validation of their worth. The emotionally MATURE person doesn’t need to go hunting for these; they gain it naturally from their daily life, especially from their work and from stable relationships and their IQ is high. Unlike immature person, however, has low levels of self-esteem and self-confidence and consequently feels insecure; to counter these feelings of insecurity they will spend a large proportion of their lives creating situations in which they become the centre of attention. It may be that the need for attention is inversely proportional to emotional maturity, therefore anyone indulging in attention-seeking behaviours is telling you how emotionally immature they are.
MAYBE SHE’S GOING THROUGH SOME KIND OF ATTENTION SYNDROM. HOPE JENNIFER GET A GRIP OF HER SISTER…………… OR MAYBE GIVE HER A ROLE IN SOME KIND OF VIDEO LIKE MS.NAUGHTY PROFESSOR. SINCE THIS IS WHAT SHE WANTS…..SICK LADY…

By: Ms. Caring

Ms. Caring — Sat, 13 Dec 2008 19:41:00 +0000

As a person who know Julia personally, I am disguished with the comments read on this website and others. To know Julia is to love her. She is a sweet person and has a big heart, which explains how she fell in love in a man like Flex.

Please know that Englewood is a crime strickened area, but it is also our home. We have been raised in this neighborhood and know everyone. Julia and Flex have known each most of their lives going up in their community. She feel in love with the person not his background. When you grow up “in the hood”, most of the people we know as kids commit crimes, sell drugs, become gang members. You don’t distrust them because they are surviving within the Englewood environment. My own brothers were gang members and drug dealers, but they are human beings with good hearts.

As for the comment about her hair at the press conference. Julia’s birthday was the day before the murders. Most women get their hair and nails done for their birthday. Why is she being ridiculed for doing the same? If you don’t know Julia, please keep your comments to yourself!!!

Since Flex had two girlfriends (per his mother), one of which was pregnant… we already know they were separated for awhile. Yes, she went forward with her life and was dating someone before this tragedy happened. Lets examine the fact that Flex was able to move on, but Julia had to lose her family (especially Julian) because he wanted her to be stagnant. Why are people criticizing her for posing with a man she had been dating prior to this tragedy.

I grew up less than a mile away from Julia, but I did not become acquainted with her until she became my daugther’s bus driver. I was going through a divorce and my daughter became very ill. My daughter had several surgeries and this woman (Julia) showed an interest in my child. Julia would spend time with my daughter to give me a break. For a single mother, who spent weeks sleeping in a chair in my daughter’s hospital room, this was a miracle to me. For someone to show an interest in me and my daughter like she did takes great compassion.

Julia has a sweet heart, and no should judge a person without actually knowing them. I don’t usually make a comment on these type of sites, but everyone should know the real Julia Hudson. She is a wonderful person, whom my daughter loves dearly, and she is/was the BEST MOM in the world.

My daughter is having a hard time with this whole ordeal, especially losing Julian. Unless you have been there, how can you tell this woman how she should be grieving her family’s death. Please people…find something more positive to do with your valuable time. JULIA HUDSON NEEDS OUR PRAYERS NOT YOUR NEGATIVE COMMENTS.

By: SugaBear

SugaBear — Thu, 04 Dec 2008 15:25:08 +0000

Myspace/Crackspace! It is addictive and just like dope addicts if their moma died they’d still be doing dope probably right before you put her in the ground. I think that’s the deal with myspace. But all the other stuff she is doing and saying….JUST PLAIN DUMB!

By: De Fench

De Fench — Mon, 17 Nov 2008 04:25:53 +0000

thank you for posting this. I had no clue about her extremely disturbing and just plain ole sad behavior. Lord, bless that whole family.

By: Detroit Mom

Detroit Mom — Sat, 15 Nov 2008 08:32:54 +0000

I just keep asking myself, how did Julia know her mother had been shot when she came home? There was reportly a neighbor who called 911. Mothers need to choose carefully what man is put over their children, and are you choosing a man over your children? Which is more important, your child or a new man? Something just aint right. I believe Julia doesn’t want to be alone and has very low self asteem. Look at what she married. I read his arrest report and what could he possibly have had to offer her? You can get sex when you can’t get a meal. WAKE UP BLACK WOMEN!!!!!!!!!!!

By: mimi

mimi — Fri, 14 Nov 2008 17:32:03 +0000

Who are we to judge…………..

By: Attorneymom

Attorneymom — Fri, 14 Nov 2008 05:38:02 +0000

This will be my last comment regarding this matter. You determined from a few Myspace entries and pictures that this woman is “two sandwiches short of a picnic” and involved in the murders of her son, mother and brother??? Wow. I am flabbergasted by your comments. I would add some of you to my “Sit Your Azz Down” list, but there is not enough room on my blog.

I hope your prayers for the Hudson family are as strong as your stone throwing skills.

London-African-Chick, here is a video for you:

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If Julia reads this blog, please click on the following link and remember that “God still has need of you. Get up!! Get up!!”

http://charactercorner.blogspot.com/search/label/HOLINESS